Life Events administration

Since October 2023, I've had the pleasure of overseeing the Life Events administration for Baptisms, Weddings, and Funerals at SMR. It has been such a joy to be part of the friendly SMR staff team, and I have been warmly welcomed by everyone.


From the stunning building to the memorable carol services and concerts, many people feel a deep connection to SMR and wish to celebrate their significant moments here. I really enjoy engaging with those who may not regularly attend church or are unfamiliar with the Church of England's traditions, and a key part of this role is to provide a welcoming and positive experience for everyone interacting with us. If people don’t already have the right connection with the church we aren’t always able to hold their life event at SMR, but for baptisms and weddings there is always an invitation to build a connection by coming along to church services. Of course everyone is warmly welcomed at SMR!


Organising weddings and funerals involves guiding people in seasons of both joy and sorrow, through numerous steps and stages, ensuring everything goes smoothly from the initial enquiry to the event day.


This year I had the opportunity to help Laura lead a marriage preparation session for 6 wedding couples, and also visit a family before a funeral, which was such a privilege, especially as I am now stepping into ordained ministry too.


I look forward to what the next few months will bring here at SMR- we still have 6 more weddings to go this side of Christmas, and plenty more booked in, up until summer 2026!


Helena Whitwell

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By rebecca.horry March 13, 2026
As the new season begins, it feels full of potential as new life appears around us and the days grow longer. Spring brings a natural sense of renewal, and it feels like a particularly special time in the life of our church. I’m delighted that our building will be hosting several events that explore the story and meaning of Easter in different ways. One highlight will be hosting Riding Lights Theatre Company presenting Night Falls, a new Passion play by Paul Birch, offering a powerful retelling of the Easter story. We hope it will be meaningful for both members of our congregation and visitors who join us. We are also looking forward to a screening from the Exhibition on Screen series exploring Easter in Art, reflecting on how artists across the centuries have interpreted the Passion and Resurrection. Our church shop continues to welcome visitors and regulars alike. Alongside cards, books, and gifts, I’m pleased to share that we have recently brought a new book supplier on board, helping us widen our range of titles for both children and adults exploring faith and the heritage of the church. I’ve also been delighted to help recruit several new volunteers to help run church tours, and we hope this will allow us to expand our tour offer and share the story of the church with even more visitors. If you see them in the church please help welcome them to the team. Behind the scenes, we continue working to welcome concerts and other events into the church. Our beautiful space lends itself wonderfully to music, and these events not only bring people together but also help support the care and future of the building. Over the coming months, we look forward to hosting a range of concerts and cultural events, welcoming audiences from across the local area and beyond. If you know of choirs, ensembles, or promoters looking for a distinctive venue, please do point them in our direction. Thank you to everyone who supports these activities by volunteering, attending events, shopping in the shop, or spreading the word. Recca Horry , Commercial Manager 13.03.2026
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